Category Archives: Gendered moments

Babane, Anane & Kaynana make jam: A lesson in leading, following and collaborating


This month, I am reflecting on work as part of the Blogher NaBloPoMo challenge. And I sure have a lot to say on the topic when it comes to my job at the University. But if I really think about … Continue reading

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Take your kaynana to work day: A Turkish mother-in-law’s observations of an academic


Yesterday, I wrote about my Turkish mother-in-law (kaynana) – or rather – my phantom mother-in-law, as she passed away before I had the honor of meeting her.  During the time I have been with M., I have gleaned bits and … Continue reading

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What would my Turkish kaynana (mother-in-law) think? On working women and workaholism


The Karagöz puppets would like me to announce that they are taking a sporadic vacation this month – and will only make occasional appearances here on Slowly-by-Slowly. They are exhausted and in need of a good, long nap. Instead, you … Continue reading

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