Category Archives: Turkish-American Matters

Of east and west, work and rest in a Turkish-American marriage


Living in a Turkish-American marriage, there are some differences that are glaringly garish, more that subtle, a few that are barely perceptible and some that really creep up on you over time.  As my theme of the month is “work,” due … Continue reading

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Take your kaynana to work day: A Turkish mother-in-law’s observations of an academic


Yesterday, I wrote about my Turkish mother-in-law (kaynana) – or rather – my phantom mother-in-law, as she passed away before I had the honor of meeting her.  During the time I have been with M., I have gleaned bits and … Continue reading

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What would my Turkish kaynana (mother-in-law) think? On working women and workaholism


The Karagöz puppets would like me to announce that they are taking a sporadic vacation this month – and will only make occasional appearances here on Slowly-by-Slowly. They are exhausted and in need of a good, long nap. Instead, you … Continue reading

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